What in life is worth more than a good friend? The other things we desire — pleasure, wealth, and achievement — mean much more to us when they 1 (enjoy) with friends. When we watch a beautiful sunset alone, we want to tell a friend about it. When we buy a new smartwatch, we want to show it to a friend. When we win a contest or get a new job, we hope our friends will be impressed. And if we have none of these things, 2 (be) with a friend will still make us happy.
This is 3 the ancients esteemed friendship highly and believed it should only be pursued for its own sake. To Roman philosopher Cicero, most people only recognize something as good 4 it is profitable, and care most for those from their stockpile (积累) of friends they are able to profit from the most. “Accordingly they never possess that most beautiful and most spontaneous friendship 5 must be sought solely for itself without any ulterior (暗藏的) object,” he wrote.
But at the same time, it's important 6 (recognize) that people can help us a lot in our careers, and sometimes we need this help. In some fields, connections with successful people can make a huge difference. In college, I knew many people in the creative writing department of my school, some of whom got published easily 7 they had a network in publishing. One of the most prominent (杰出的) writers among them had a close relationship with the son of a famous editor of one of America's most important publishers. It is quite likely 8 this relationship helped her a lot in her writing career.
Moreover, people are happy to help less experienced or less successful people with their careers. Mentorship (职场导师关系) is one of the oldest and most important types of human relationship. A person with a mentor is 9 (likely) to know success than a person without. A mentor also benefits, feeling a sense of satisfaction from helping. They may even see benefits to their own career as a result. We need to make sure that we carve out spaces in our lives for pure friendships, but there is nothing wrong 10 also making room for useful networking.